The Vanilla

I enjoy live music, museums, album listens, and slow mornings listening to jazz while luxuriating in the sheets.

A native Bay Area Dominatrix, I delight in foraging for mushrooms, dipping My toes in the ocean, and the slow drip of cold-brewed tea.

I am particularly pleased by…

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A few of My favorite authors:

Murakami, Vonnegut, Hesse, Robbins, Yoshimoto

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I am especially interested in the balance of Yin and Yang, of opposing energetics, and how each can be cultivated and honored. One could call these Masculine and Feminine energies, though I personally dislike gendering them as such. I believe that BDSM can facilitate this work as well as act as a vehicle with which we can explore healing trauma and self-growth. The intersection of My vanilla work and passions + My explorations in, and approach to, BDSM is what excites Me.

I am Japanese but not a Japanese Domme - and you must understand this nuance.

The Kink

I’ve been exploring BDSM for 16 years and counting. In My journey I’ve had the pleasure of holding a 24/7 TPE dynamic, guiding new submissives through first-time experiences, all while learning about My needs and wants as well. These days I find Myself drawn evermore to bullying, sadism, Japanese rope, and mummification. Oviposition remains one of My favorite ways to play - the thought of impregnating you with My eggs makes Me smile…

While I do not consider Myself a Japanese Dominatrix, My Third Culture experience expresses itself as a love of hentai, early impressions of tentacle CNC, furries, ABDL, and all things that touch on shame and swim in taboo.

I highly value obedience and therefore prioritize structured training and protocol for those who are cut from a similar cloth. My expression of sadism is peppered with humor, because to watch you suffer, squirm, and yield, is nothing short of entertaining. It is both the physical sadism and the mentally breaking of a person: to bring someone who ordinarily wouldn’t want or enjoy pain, to the point of desperately begging for it, is an absolute delight.

Teasing, of all kinds, excites Me. Denial, even more so. It all comes down to control: of the situation, of the reactions, of you.